Suffering
Why are we suffering so much
After all you will ask why is this happening to me, why is there so much sorrow in my life, why am I suffering so much, why do I have to suffer so much painWhat is happening to me? Why is there so much pain and suffering in my life? Why am I being treated so badly? What is my fault? You must be asking all this to yourself, that is why you have asked me this question.
We are suffering, we are in pain, we are suffering because we have become alienated from our own personality, we are forgetting who we are and what our existence is.
Suffering plays a very important role in our life. Suffering teaches us a lot. Suffering has shown us new dimensions and truth in life. Now it is our test that how do we take it
Suffering – Curse or Blessing.
For some suffering is a curse and for some suffering is a blessing. People often forget that it is the suffering in their life, it is the sorrow, it is the pain which takes them towards happiness, makes them self-reliant, makes them stand on their own feet, it shows them that they are on the wrong path, brings them on the right path, it makes them understand that their lifestyle is wrong, it makes them understand that their attitude towards life is going wrong, it makes them understand that they are not great, they are ordinary and there is some higher power above them also in whose hands this universe is rotating.
Our every sorrow, our suffering, our bad times, our unlucky times make us humble.
It teaches us to respect even our enemies. It tells us the importance of life and the little things we get in life.
It tells us that life is not in our hands, it is in the hands of our God.
This sorrow, this suffering is the biggest weapon to free us from our fear. This sword of sorrow completely cuts the fear within us and teaches us to surrender in life. It teaches us that there is some power in our life which is beyond us.
Because this ego prevents us from becoming great in this life. Ego makes you weak not only in the outer world but also in the inner world. If a successful person is full of ego, then he can get attention but cannot get respect.
This suffering brings us to the right path in life. We have forgotten what our actual duty is and what Dharma is. When we forget how our existence is connected to God, then we suffer from suffering and pain.
You should always keep in mind that you must always remember that this suffering, this sorrow, this pain, these problems will bring out a glow in you, will awaken your personality, will bring out the hidden powers within you.
Suffering Problems envokes valor in you.
It has been observed in history that whenever there are big problems, misery, wrong behaviour and suffering in the world, then power or say super power has emerged inside the human being.
It is the pain and suffering that comes in life that makes a person strong. God does not make us successful until he makes us go through these pains and sufferings.
Keep in mind that God is blessing everyone equally in life, but how great is our eligibility? Eligibility means that we are like a vessel; a small vessel can hold very little water but a big vessel can hold a lot of water and if a person has to become successful, then he will have to increase this eligibility,
he will have to increase his eligibility and to increase this eligibility, God gives us sorrow, pain and suffering in our life so that he can make you so strong from within that when a big responsibility comes upon you in life, then you can handle that responsibility in a good manner.
And one more thing you should keep in mind is that in life God can give us only as much pain as we can bear, God gives us only as much responsibility as we can fulfill, God can put us in as big a problem as we can solve.
You can do it.
For example, a President or a Prime Minister may face a big problem in their life or in their daily routine, our God can never give us such a big problem, it will be given only to those who are capable of handling it.
We get only that much sorrow, pain and problem in life which is necessary for us to improve ourselves. God can see our life far ahead. We cannot see our life too far ahead. We think only about tomorrow, day after tomorrow or a week later.
But God knows everything from the past moments of our life to the coming years. He also knows what important and big goals we have to achieve in our life ahead. That is why it becomes very important that in today’s era when we neither have the availability of a good Guru nor a good mentor, at this time it is only God who grinds us in this mill of sorrow and brings out a new improvement in us.
It is said that if a stone is hurt by a hammer then it can never become a statue. The meaning of this sentence is that if you want to transform from coal to diamond, from stone to gold then you must learn to bear pain and suffering.
Now let us look at how we can overcome ourselves in this sad environment of life so that we can move ahead and achieve great goals and make our lives prosperous and supreme.
Remember 4 Things.
The first thing is that if you consider profit and loss to be the same and keep doing your work very well without any desire, keeping a very close eye on your actions, then this bad time will not take much time to turn into good time.
Secondly, the person who thinks that whatever he is doing is not happening by his own hands but by the will of God, the most extraordinary and great work is done by his hands.
The third thing is that the person who dedicates his every deed, his daily routine, good and bad times, whatever result is coming, good or bad, to God and lives his life happily and keeps moving forward, he achieves success or the one whose mind is not shaken by success, only he gets prosperity and success.
Fourth thing, you should always keep in mind that every step of the path that you have taken and the path that you are going to take, every step of it has been placed by the Lord before you. Your future is known to the Lord before you. Even if at this moment you feel that you are in a big dilemma, you are suffering a lot, you are very sad, but believe me.
I am telling you this from the experience I have received from thousands of people that this sorrow is only and only for a moment. It has come to make your life strong. Even if you do not believe it today, but in the coming time you will believe that the sorrows that are coming in your life today, it is good that this sorrow came in your life. You will thank for this sorrow in the future because every person becomes great only because of sorrows. No person becomes great in a happy life where there is a shower of money.
It is amidst suffering and hard work that a great emperor, a great king, a great leader is born, that is why always keep in mind that this suffering is only and only to teach you and prepare you for the future. A big goal, a big prosperity, a big success is waiting for you ahead and it is your God’s wish that you reach that goal.
That is why God is giving you so much suffering today. You have to overcome this suffering, your eligibility, your restraint, your intelligence, your doubts and by increasing all your things, you have to make surrender yourself to God, only then you can become a great person.
Like other people, I can also tell you that do something and then you will be free from suffering. Or this or that is why you are suffering and suffering in your life. But my purpose of writing this blog is not to give you answers to questions that give you happiness only by action.
I want that whatever I have learnt in life, whatever I have known, whatever circumstances I have come out of, I assure you that you will also come out of these things one day and make your life successful. I want to give you such an answer which will settle in your mind and change your life completely.
I want to give you such an answer which will awaken a new dimension, a new hope, a new enthusiasm, a new courage in your mind in your difficult times.
See what’s life, it wants you to move ahead but to move ahead one has to take a lot of risks. Some people just wake up and go as their life is going on but among them some people rise above today’s circumstances and keep on doing their work to move their life ahead, only such people achieve success.
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